There are several different defenses in domestic violence cases. But, before anybody starts telling you over the phone what your defense is, they will need to know the facts and circumstances surrounding your case. In other words, what happened? How are you being accused, arrested, or charged with domestic violence? And then you can start to develop your defense?
The first step in any domestic violence defense is to get to an attorney and tell them what happened, and it's great if you could say to them first what the prosecutors or police are claiming you did; that way, they kind of have a base of what you're looking at and then when you give him all the other information — which of course is usually your spin or your take on things they can kind of take that with a grain of salt and compare that to what you're being charged with doing.
But, of course, the first defense is typical: No, I didn't do that. However, this defense is not always the most effective, because sometimes simply saying 'no, I didn't do that' will not win the case for you. I can't tell you how many times I'm in the middle of a preliminary hearing in a domestic violence case or a trial, and my client is whispering in my ear, No, I didn't do that, and the person is lying.
I couldn't then say, ' Wait a minute, sir, didn't they do that? ' Because then they're going to say, no, they did that. So, that won't work. So, when you say that, it doesn't do you any good in a domestic violence-related matter. And when you say, oh, they're lying, I can't just turn that around and say, excuse me, sir, are you lying? They're going to say, no, I'm not lying; I'm telling the truth.
Witness Statements
You've got to figure out evidence to have a good defense in a domestic violence case—for example, witnesses. Some witnesses saw what happened, which differs from the alleged victim's claims. Now you're talking. Now, you're starting to get a defense in your domestic violence-related case.
Let's say that the alleged victim says that you punched them in the face, and you weigh 200 pounds, and you pack a good punch, and they don't have any injuries on their face. Now, that would defy logic and common sense that somebody would be punched in the face by a 200-pound person and not have an injury on their face. Now, we're starting to mount a defense.
Inconsistent Statements From Alleged Victim
Now you start to see that there has to be evidence. Another thing I observe is the effectiveness of a defense in a domestic violence case. The person is claiming they were battered, contradictory statements about what happened.

In other words, they make what we call inconsistent statements in criminal defense. They make one statement on the subject matter, and then change it, alter it, and make a different statement.
Now, if they're talking about crucial parts of the case when they do that, you have a pretty strong argument that they're not telling the truth because when you tell the truth, the best idea is you tell the same story every single time.
Suppose we've got a bunch of prior inconsistent statements by a witness, I. In that case, the defense attorney will impeach the witness during cross-examination and say things like, "Wait a minute, sir." You're now saying this. Still, on October 4th, you said this."
Why is your statement here different than your statement here? Why don't you tell the same information every single time if it's the truth? And now you start to eat away at that witness's credibility, and now you can make a strong defense in your domestic violence case.
Many different defenses can be employed, but most of these defenses rely on specific facts. Your first step is to contact the attorney and provide them with all the relevant facts. It's important not to cheat the attorney because by only telling part of the story, you're cheating yourself. Tell the whole story, as it is the foundation for building a strong defense.
When presenting the facts, strive to remain as neutral as possible. This will enable the attorney to better understand the case. Remember, the attorney's job is to present everything in your favor, but you need to provide them with the opposing side so they are aware of what's coming their way down the road. This will enable them to mount the best defense for you.
Meeting with a Domestic Violence Lawyer
In that first meeting — that first step that you take — you'll lay everything out. The attorney will ask you a bunch of questions about it, and then you and the attorney will decide how to deal with the case most effectively.
Whether that's going to mount an entire all-out offense, tell the prosecutors you're not taking any deals, and take the case to trial as fast as possible, or whether you're going to try to mitigate things, do damage control, and get the lowest possible resolution for you.
It's crucial to discuss the game plan in the first meeting with the attorney. This way, the attorney will know exactly what the game plan is, and you will, too. Both of you will be operating on the same wavelength, making moves that best help you, and you'll both have the same mental understanding of what's going on, which can give you confidence in your defense strategy.
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